Ruth, I really feel for you. I understand what you're saying and I agree with you completely. There's something about going off to college and being free of parents that just triggers something in some people's mind to make them act like idiots and turn their backs on how they were brought up. (if they were brought up in that way) I can't say that there is a bunch of swearing and weed and stuff here because I haven't personally seen it but I do know that there are a lot of hypocrites here, even myself on some level. It's hard going to a Christian college and having to live up to that standard. It's like everyone is looking at you expecting you to be perfect while at the same time, not being perfect themselves. I don't know, it's also really nice too, because all of my friends that I've met haven't been like that but I do know that it's out there. This must sound really confusing and probably not what you what to here. But I just wanted you to know that I feel for you and I understand what you're saying.